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Franciscan Friars of the Renewal |
Winter 2005 Published biannually |
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Our Lady at Our Side |
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by Fr. Bernard Marie Murphy, CFR |
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With all the international trips I have made over the past years, it would seem that I should be accustomed to the necessary prep time for travel. Unfortunately, no matter how much I plan, there never seems to be sufficient time to get all the last-minute details in order. Phone calls, necessary directives to friars, paperwork that demands immediate attention all appear at the eleventh hour. My most recent visit to England was no exception. |
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It was a Wednesday evening towards the end of September. I was traveling to Bradford, England, for the blessing and formal opening of our newest foundation, St. Pio Friary. Br. Thomas Joseph was traveling with me, as he had been assigned to the new house. We purposely arranged for a late-evening flight so that we would have ample time to get everything in good order. However, it was not to be!
Since we were traveling directly to Manchester, England, we needed to fly from Newark Airport. Crossing the Hudson River from the Bronx to New Jersey can sometimes be like attempting to ford the Mississippi in a canoe with no paddles. Hours seemed to pass as our car crept across the George Washington Bridge. Although the traffic finally opened up on the Jersey shores like the parting of the Red Sea, precious minutes had passed. For some unexplainable reason, the lines at the airport check-in counter were particularly long that night. Because Br. Thomas was moving his life to England, bags had to be checked (even if ever so few). The swirls of interior impatience seemed to swell my brain as we waited an experienced eternity for an opportunity to approach the airline agent. Finally, our moment had come and we were invited to the desk. Passports, tickets, and all necessary documentation were set before the attendant. She proceeded with her seemingly mindless task of checking the information, typing into her computer all the pertinent details, and rattling off all necessary security questions. Suddenly she stopped and said, "I am sorry, Mr. Murphy, but you are listed on a 'No Fly List'". I could feel the blood rush to my face, my pulse begin to race, when the airline agent looked up and said "Oh! what a beautiful countenance." I thought to myself, "Lady, you must be out of your mind," when I realized she was not looking at me. She was looking over my shoulder. I quickly turned to see what she was gazing at. There stood Br. Thomas holding his precious cargo, a three foot-image of Our Lady of Guadalupe. "What a beautiful face she has, so peaceful, so serene," the attendant commented. At that moment, the whole tenor of the day shifted. Suddenly an abiding sense of God's presence and provision filled my heart. Without hesitation, I knew God was in control. The agent immediately returned to her computer and stated that there was no difficulty with my flying. The name and birth date in my passport did not match the information present on the computer screen. As she typed in all the necessary prompts to get us through the security check, the agent asked question after question about Our Lady and Her Son. After fifteen minutes of pleasant exchange, the agent sent us on our way with a welcome seat change to bulkhead for more leg room.
Having effectively obtained our boarding tickets, Br. Thomas, Our Lady and I proceeded to our next frustration, the security checkpoint. Although lines are commonplace in air travel these days, the back-up at security seemed particularly marked that evening. As we awaited our turn to pass through the metal detectors, we emptied our pockets of any metallic objects. Without our notice, a holy card of Our Lady slipped out of one of our breviaries. Just as we were to continue down the line, a guard called out to us, "Excuse me, sir. You dropped this." As we stopped to see who beckoned us, we turned to see the airport security guard standing back upright, having picked the image from the floor. With a quick, but pious pause, the middle-aged man gazed at the picture, gave it a reverent kiss, and handed Our Lady back to us. She was clearly still at our side. After what seemed like another interminable wait, we finally were ushered onto the plane and settled into our seats. The flight was on its way, and the drama of the day seemed to be fading into the past. It was a late-night flight, so we were eager to have our dinner and get some rest. The flight attendants too seemed determined to finish their tasks with haste. Trays were removed, lights were dimmed, and the sonorous groans of sleeping passengers could be heard. I was about to settle in when one of the stewardesses came and inquired if we were Franciscans. I said that we were. At this, our attendant sat down on the floor and began to tell us her story.
Some weeks before, this stewardess had been assigned to a flight to Lisbon, Portugal. Although she was a "non-active Catholic", as she described herself, she felt an impulse to visit the famed shrine of Our Lady at Fatima. While there, she found her heart moved by the fervor of the pilgrims, particularly those seeking a favor of Our Lady. Mindful that her aunt was to have cancer surgery the next day, the stewardess, in pious imitation of those around her, lit a candle, mouthed some prayers, and hoped for the best concerning her aunt's procedure. Upon her return to the States, the attendant told us that she called her mother to see how her aunt had fared. To her surprise, her aunt answered the phone. She was visiting the mother. "I thought you would still be in the hospital", the stewardess said. It was then that the aunt shared with her the remarkable news. The day before the scheduled operation (the same day the stewardess was in Fatima), the aunt went through some preliminary tests. To the astonishment of the doctors, no trace of cancer could be found. After further investigation and consultation, the surgery was deemed unnecessary at that time ("and at any time", added the stewardess). Tears welled up in the stewardess' eyes as she relayed to us the gracious kindness of Our Lady.
The Franciscan Friars and Sisters of the Renewal have a great love for Our Lady. Like our late Holy Father, Pope John Paul II, we believe she has a special role to play in our personal lives, as well as in the life of our Church. We are consecrated to Our Lady, renewed each December 12, under the title of Our Lady of Guadalupe. She is the patroness of the Americas and the Mother of the Unborn. In 1999, during his visit to Mexico for the canonization of St. Juan Diego, the late pontiff proclaimed her the Patroness of the New Evangelization. Mary is and always has been a Mother and Model, a protectress and intercessor, a companion and guide to each of the Friars and Sisters. We know Her love, we experience Her protection, and we are convinced that She is always at our side. Soon the stewardess was called by her colleagues to tend to some of her duties. My thoughts turned to the loving and abiding presence of Our Lady throughout that fading day. I adjusted the pillow behind my head as I hoped to get a few hours' rest. As I turned toward the window, I found the sky lightening in the East. The moon could be seen on the horizon. And there at its side was the Morning Star, reminding me of Our Lady who is always near. Thank you, Mary, for your love. Thank you, Mary, for your gracious intercession. Thank you, Mary, for your prodigal provision. Thank you, Mary, that you remind us OFTEN of your presence. And thank you that you are always Our Lady at our side.
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